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Everything you touch, you change. Everything you change, changes you. The only lasting truth is Change.

Those three sentences are from Octavia E. Butler's The Parable of the Sower. They describe something I believe deeply in - the unavoidability, and ubiquity, of change. Every aspect of your self changes all the time.

I believe this about my gender just as much as I believe it about all the atoms in the universe.

Here are some blogs about my journey with a changing gender:


Just Transition - 27/10/2022

What Lauren Lives - 28/08/2022

On Confusion - 03/08/2022

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